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Inside The Family Place


  • 40 Stories for 40 Years: Eddie Coker

    by Emily Roberts | Aug 06, 2018

    Eddie Coker was an opera singer when Pepsi KidAround started in 1992. But he had written three children’s songs and pitched Pepsi KidAround organizer Paige Flink, then Director of Community Education for The Family Place, on being a part of the show.

    “That first year was the shortest children’s concert ever,” Coker says. “But by the next year, I had come out with my first children’s album, and the rest is history.”

    Coker credits Pepsi KidAround for sparking a change in his career at the same time it increased awareness of The Family Place. The signature event, held Labor Day weekend until 2005, brought musicians, puppeteers, storytellers and fun activities together to entertain families. So many of The Family Place’s supporters grew up with the event, bringing their small children, who are now college grads with fond memories of listening to Coker.

    “It was so much fun to be given the opportunity,” Coker says. “I had no clue how to be a performer for children other than to be an idiot. I remember being there and singing my song “Becky,” kind of an ode to Johnny Cash’s “A Boy Named Sue” about an alligator named Becky. I got a dad up on stage to play the alligator, and everyone loved it. I realized people like to participate! Pepsi KidAround was an important part of learning my craft.”

    Since those days, Coker, an award-winning singer, songwriter, and performer, has created the “Weird, Wild World of Eddie Coker” for Disney, recorded 100s of songs for children and their families, gained a huge following on SiriusXM Radio, and has entertained well over a 1,000,000 children nationwide as a live concert artist.

    He also founded The Wezmore Project, which teaches children, teens, families and educators about emotional wholeness and emotional intelligence to help kids stop hurting. He’s sung to 60,000 kids in the last two years through the project that seeks to prevent self-harm and suicide.

  • 40 Stories for 40 Years: Fanchon Scaife

    by Emily Roberts | Aug 01, 2018

    Fanchon Scaife first experienced an abusive relationship when she was in junior high school. Many other abusive relationships followed, each with a different face. The most threatening came when her daughter’s father beat and tried to suffocate her. Her daughter was not present at the time, but the aftermath of the incident affected not only her and her daughter but also others close to them. Even her employer felt threatened by Fanchon’s abuser.

    As she was in the process of healing from the abusive relationships, Fanchon met a counselor from The Family Place at a church meeting. She and her daughter started attending individual and group counseling sessions at our Southern Dallas Counseling Center.

    “It helped immensely to personally know, listen and talk to others who had gone through similar situations,” she says. “We grew tremendously through that life experience by utilizing the tools we were given at The Family Place, many of which focused on self-esteem.”

    Fanchon now owns Heaven's Jewel, a T-shirt business that promotes women’s empowerment, and Heaven's Jewel Estates, a real estate investing/ broker business. She has written a children's book entitled I'm Not Afraid of You and is a member of The Family Place’s Ladies of Leadership and Toastmasters.

    "The goal is to shine light from my core,” Fanchon says. “Instead of letting the layers of hard times in my life dim my light, I choose to turn them into mirrors that reflect and enhance it, all by the power of my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.”

     

  • 40 Stories for 40 Years: Sherry Lundberg

    by Emily Roberts | Jul 25, 2018

    Sherry Lundberg joined The Family Place in 1984 as a Case Manager in the North Dallas Help Center, which was the precursor to our Battering Intervention & Prevention Program (BIPP). A licensed professional counselor with a master’s degree in Psychology, she brought a clinical perspective to family violence work, which had primarily grown out of the women’s movement. When Sherry became Program Director in 1985, a role she would hold until 1996, her clinical background shaped the program, which was at the forefront of work with abusers.

    “In the early days of the men’s program, there was a big emphasis on education,” Sherry says. “We focused on the clergy, the medical community, suicide and crisis centers, and the gay and lesbian community to talk about detection and intervention. We worked with the Jewish Coalition Against Domestic Violence and the Visiting Nurses Association to try bring family violence into the light. We wanted as many people as possible to know how to recognize family violence and where they could get help.”

    Sherry worked with a professor at UT Southwestern, Alvin North, to develop the Lundberg-North Inventory of Psychological abuse, a checklist for adults that became a mainstay in family violence education and counseling. She also developed a resource brochure for teens called “Love Does Not Need to Hurt,” and a resource book for the clergy called “Stopping Abuse in the Family: What Can Faith Communities Do?”

    In 1993, the Texas Legislature authorized family violence offenders to be referred to battering treatment as part of probation, and program development work grew in Texas. By that point, The Family Place, with Sherry in a leadership role, had much knowledge to share. Sherry went on to serve on the state committee that developed standards for BIPP programs. Those standards later drove the requirements for BIPP accreditation, and, in 2009, The Family Place BIPP became one of the first providers in Texas to become fully accredited under new state guidelines. In 2017, our BIPP program provided 12,805 service hours to 628 men, 133 women and 15 adolescents. The majority of clients are court ordered to counseling, and the program continues to be one of the premier service providers in Texas.

    Since she left The Family Place, Sherry has been in private practice in Dallas serving a wide variety of clients.

    “I still love doing what I do,” she says. “I never have gotten burned out. I’m realistic about what I can do and about what the client can do. When you work inside of that space, you can feel successful.”

  • 40 Stories for 40 Years: Josie Horn

    by Emily Roberts | Jul 18, 2018

    Josie Horn grew up in Dallas watching her father abuse her mother. She graduated from Mountain View Community College with a degree in Business Administration and later married and had three children. Shortly after getting married, her husband went into the ministry and began to abuse Josie psychologically and spiritual.

    Josie lost her mom to an aneurysm and her sister to ovarian cancer in the span of a few years. During this time her husband started doing drugs and their church started the process to vote him out as pastor.

    “I didn't know which way to turn, and I honestly thought I was losing my mind,” Josie says. “It was blow after blow after blow. I didn't have anyone to talk to, I didn't know where to go, and I definitely couldn't explain what I was feeling. Eventually I was diagnosed with manic depression.”

    When an advocate from The Family Place spoke at her office in 2001, Josie realized she was in a crisis and began to relive the pain and turmoil from her childhood and abusive marriage. Her divorce was final by this point, but through counseling at The Family Place, she realized her life still had a purpose.

    “All of the things I have experienced have helped build my confidence and make me a stronger individual,” she says. “The Family Place is a place you can go to for help, shelter, leadership and sponsorship. It has made a tremendous impact in my life by letting me know that no matter what circumstance I go through, I have the power inside to overcome every obstacle.”

    Josie was The Family Place’s Survivor of the Year in 2008 and shared her story on the Trinity Broadcasting Network. She is a member of The Family Place’s Ladies of Leadership group and Toastmaster’s International, and is writing a book about her experiences so that other women will know that they are not alone.

     

  • 40 Stories for 40 Years: The Hoglund Foundation

    by Emily Roberts | Jul 05, 2018

    Since we opened the Sally’s House emergency shelter building at our Safe Campus in 2000, The Hoglund Foundation has been one of our most generous supporters, and the Hoglund family has included our clients in many of their family celebrations. The family has held many Easter egg hunts for the kids, provided lunch to families on Mother’s Day, and even held a surprise birthday party for Sally Hoglund’s 80th birthday at the Safe Campus emergency shelter.

    For the birthday celebration, Sally’s 10 grandkids, the junior board of The Hoglund Foundation, picked her up and brought her to celebrate her birthday with all of the families at the campus with Pokey O’s ice cream sandwiches, arts and crafts, and lots of balloons. The family honored Sally and The Family Place with a donation to continue the good work at the Safe Campus. The Hoglund Foundation was also a major donor to our capital campaign to build Ann Moody Place.

    Sally and Forrest Hoglund created The Hoglund Foundation in 1989 to help others. Since its inception, the foundation has grown dramatically and contributed more than $40 million in grants to organizations focusing on education and family support systems. Together Sally Hoglund and Sally Johnson were founding co-chairs of the Partners Card, which has raised millions of dollars for programs at The Family Place over the last 25 years.

    "It has been so rewarding to see the growth of The Family Place over the years,” says Sally. “What a special place and what a special CEO. Paige Flink does an outstanding job, and we are lucky to have her. Thanks to everyone involved!"

    Join us in thanking the Hoglunds for their unwavering support and generous family traditions!

  • 40 Stories for 40 Years: Kager Howard

    by Emily Roberts | Jun 29, 2018

    Kager Howard swore she would never be a victim of domestic violence before she even knew there was a name for it. But she did. Kager heard about The Family Place from a volunteer while seeking counseling for her 12-year-old daughter who had witnessed Kager being abused. Soon Kager began going to counseling as well and was a client at our Southern Dallas Counseling Center for two years.

    "The counselor was instrumental in helping me discover who I was and how to start loving myself. The-group meetings were life changing," she says. "Being able to talk to someone who understood without judgement created an atmosphere for self growth, truth and healing."

    One night in 2006, Kager had dinner with a friend and made plans to see her again the next weekend. When it came time to see her again Kager could not reach her—her friend’s ex-husband had killed her the night after they had dinner.

    "Her death devastated me and caused me to shut down for several years thinking I could have done more," Kager says. "I no longer walk in shame or fear but I choose to speak out in hope that my story can influence others to make the decision to get out before it's too late."

    Kager is now a member of The Family Place’s Ladies of Leadership and says the group has been instrumental in helping her overcome the fear of speaking publicly against domestic violence. 

    "I am forever grateful to The Family Place for inspiring my desire to help victims of domestic violence Get Out, Stay out and Pay Out," she says. "We do this by healing ourselves and others and not becoming victims again."

     

  • 40 Stories for 40 Years: Paige Flink

    by Emily Roberts | Jun 21, 2018

    Paige Flink’s original role at The Family Place was as a volunteer. She began as part of a group organizing a new young professionals organization in 1989, Helping Hands, and became its president in 1990.

    “I visited the shelter in Oak Cliff, and just couldn’t believe women had to abandon their homes, bringing their clothes with them in black trash bags, and live in a place with bars on the windows all because they were afraid of someone who was supposed to love them,” Paige, now CEO of The Family Place, says.

    Paige Flink and sons Alex and Mason

    In 1991, Paige joined the staff, became our Director of Community Education, and started to increase awareness about family violence in general and The Family Place in particular through events that would grow into some of the most successful in the city—Pepsi KidAround, Palm Night and Partners Card, just to name a few. When she joined the staff, Paige was a young wife and mother with two boys—Mason, 3, and Alex, three months. She had a degree in fashion merchandising and strong sales experience. She didn’t know much about family violence, but she did know how to tell a story.

    “I guess what I brought to The Family Place was I had the ability to sell the cause,” Paige says. “I could share compelling stories about people who didn’t have a voice at the moment.”

        

    Through it all, Paige says, it was important to have men in her life—her sons and her husband, Randy—who supported her while she gave her all to help victims working to escape abuse. Today her sons are 30 and 27, and she says they consider themselves feminists. Paige is proud of that and of the relationships she’s built over the years through The Family Place.

    “There are volunteers and donors who started when I did who still support The Family Place,” she says. “The willingness of these people to stay involved has paved our road to success. When I started this work, family violence had no news coverage. Then in 1994 came the gruesome murder of  Nicole Brown Simpson, which focused enormous attention on the problem. Since then The Family Place has emerged as a reputable expert in the field both locally and nationally, sharing our knowledge about how services for domestic violence victims can be improved. Laws have been written to protect victims, and the community has joined us in believing that domestic violence is a cause to support. We’ve gone from having an emergency shelter with 40 beds and one counseling office to having three shelters with 178 beds, 25 transitional housing apartments and four counseling offices. When I look back, that progress is definitely rewarding.”
  • 40 Stories for 40 Years: Connie Nash

    by Emily Roberts | Jun 05, 2018

    Connie Nash came to The Family Place in 2000 after her husband of 25 years attempted to kill her. Had it not been for her 16-year-old son Daniel jumping on his father's back, her husband would have shot her in the head. Her husband went to jail, and Connie and her son found The Family Place and began their journey to recovery.

    When Connie began counseling, her self-esteem was extremely low. During her marriage, her husband isolated her from the outside world. She didn’t know how to buy groceries or manage money. The only time she was allowed to leave home was to go to church on Wednesdays and Sundays and an occasional visit to her mother-in-law’s house.

    Within a year of counseling at the Family Place, Connie learned to like herself again and remembered what self-worth was. Not only did she learn to manage money, but also she landed a job with one of the top five accounting firms in the world: KPMG.

    Connie joined Toastmasters, which taught her how to have confidence and speak with power.  She realized sharing her story could help other domestic violence survivors. She began speaking as a client advocate for The Family Place on radio, television and in public forums. She advanced in Toastmasters and become Area Governor, President of two clubs and earned a Distinguished Toastmasters Award for giving over 50 speeches, which only 10% of all Toastmasters worldwide achieve. She served on The Family Place Board of Directors for over six years and assisted in fundraising by holding fundraiser for the our Southern Sector office that raised over a thousand dollars.

    Connie later started her own gift basket business and remarried. Her son is now married and has a young son. Connie is now writing a book to share her story!

    “I am back to being the person I knew and loved,” Connie says. “I still speak at functions, mainly churches, to raise awareness of spiritual abuse and help make a change in people’s lives. I’m happy and fulfilling my purpose in life—sharing my story and make a difference in the lives of others.”

  • 40 Stories for 40 Years: Sonya Burkins

    by Emily Roberts | May 31, 2018

    Sonya Burkins learned about The Family Place after her ex-husband attempted to take her life. Although it was an isolated event, her son was left traumatized. Sonya was apprehensive about counseling, but she knew her son needed to heal so they both began counseling sessions.

    Sonya says the conversations she had in counseling opened her eyes and broadened her view of abuse.

    “Abuse comes in many forms, shapes and sizes,” Sonya explains. “Many believe that the only form of abuse is physical, but that’s not accurate. In many cases, abuse slowly grows until it explodes. When a seed is planted and watered, it will grow overt time. Many individuals will overlook the planting seasons of things like financial abuse, emotional abuse, spiritual abuse and verbal abuse. The truth is these are considered to be ‘red flags’. Unfortunately, in many cases those are the starting points to physical abuse.”

    Now, Sonya has picked up the pieces and moved forward with her life. She has degrees in both business and psychology and serves with The Family Place on the leadership team in the Southern Sector outreach office.  Sonya has coined the name “Starlight” for herself because she uses her experience to shed light on domestic violence and raise awareness on abuse.

    “I am more than my story. I am a living testimony that with the help of The Family Place and the Lord, I have beaten the odds,” Sonya says. “It’s important to continue to share and help shed light on the different forms of abuse and help those who think they do not have the ability to remove themselves from an abusive situation believe that they do. They need to know that they can become a Starlight, too!”


  • 40 Stories for 40 Years: Debra Mitchell-Ibe

    by Emily Roberts | May 24, 2018

    “I have had a career that most people would have to move around to several agencies to have,” says Debra Mitchell-Ibe, who has been at The Family Place for more than 30 years.

    Debra started at our emergency shelter as a counselor, and then became Hotline Manager, Assistant Shelter Director and Shelter Director before becoming Program Manager for our Outreach Counseling Program. There she was a part of the creation of our Latino Program and our expansion into the Metrocrest after a domestic violence death in the area.

    “We originally developed our community-based counseling program because statistics showed that African American victims were utilizing our shelter but not counseling services,” she says, “so we also started a counseling program in South Dallas.”

    The START family violence education program—now called the Be Project—also began during Debra’s time as Program Director when a staff person saw a need to reach high school kids. Currently she is Senior Director of Training and Education and is passing on her extensive knowledge to our entire staff.

    “I loved all the positions I have been fortunate to have,” she says. “My favorite part has been the educational aspect of working with families, staff and the community to educate, empower and end domestic violence. I think I had the most fun assisting in the creation of events to reach families impacted by domestic violence.”

    “I have had the great fortune to have wonderful staff and mentors. I carry the stories of victims who have shared their experiences and educated me about how to help,” she says.

    One of the most memorable clients was a woman who came to the shelter badly beaten on Christmas Day.

    “It was heartbreaking to think at a time when we celebrate peace on earth that we do not have peace in our homes,” Debra says.

    Another unforgettable client was during her time supervising our children’s program. A four-year-old boy came into counseling after he had been expelled from school for a second time. Using “coloring book” therapy, he began to tell his story. Debra always asked children what they learned in school. Children of this age would often say things like the ABCs and how to count, and Debra would add that they also learned how to line up and walk in line to lunch, the library etc. At this little boy’s school, the walk to the cafeteria went by the front exit of the school. During therapy, he told Debra that he ran out the door because he needed to find his mother.

    “At four he knew that going out the door would cause a chain reaction that included his mother being called and summoned to the school. Then he would be sent home with her to think about his behavior. What no one in the system asked was why did he have a need to find his mother,” Debra says.

    Through the pictures drawn, Debra learned that the boy’s father would strangle his mother until she passed out, making him think she was dead. Being away from her at school caused extreme anxiety. He wanted to make sure his mother was still alive, but he couldn’t verbalize it. No one at school was looking further than calling his mother and sending him home with her, she says.

    The hardest counseling session Debra remembers involved a 12-year-old boy who was brought to counseling by his grandmother. His father had killed his mother in front of him and his sister and had shot him.

    “It was so hard to listen to the pain of the grandmother receiving a call at work that her only child and two of her three grandchildren had been shot,” Debra says. “The children were taken to one hospital and her daughter to another. She had to make the hard decision to go to the hospital with her grandchildren while her daughter died before she could make it to see her.”

    “I have so many success stories I could tell,” Debra says, “but these difficult ones are the ones that remind me why I do what I do—because adults and children should not have to suffer in this way!”

  • 40 Stories for 40 Years: Kimberly Johnson

    by Emily Roberts | May 16, 2018

    Kimberly Johnson thought her abusive boyfriend would change when they got married, but as soon as she said “I do” the abuse became even worse. She watched her sons become angry with her husband and knew she had to leave before the abuse started affecting them.

    One night she saw a commercial for The Family Place, and she wrote down the hotline number and called the next day. Our hotline counselor explained that if she came to the shelter, she would have to cut all ties with her husband, something she was not sure if she could do after trying and failing in the past.

    Two days later Kimberly called back and we had an opening at the shelter, so she prepared to leave. When her husband left for work the next day, she and her children left for the shelter. Although leaving was difficult, when she saw the look of relief on her sons’ faces, she knew she had made the right decision. With The Family Place’s help, Kimberly got an apartment and never returned to her abuser.

    “Through the counseling and other services provided at The Family Place, I learned that I am worthy of love without violence of any kind, and that I am enough,” Kimberly says.

    This year, many years after coming to The Family Place as a client, Kimberly returned as an intern. She will receive a bachelor’s degree in Human Service in December of 2018.

    “I came to The Family Place to give back what was so freely given to me,” she says. “I am extremely grateful for the services rendered to me because I would not have made it if this agency wasn’t here.”

  • 40 Stories for 40 Years: Faith and Liberty Battaglia

    by Emily Roberts | May 08, 2018


    Faith and Liberty Battaglia were nine and six years old in May 2001 when their father, John Battaglia, murdered them as their mother listened on the phone. For this ultimate act of family violence, Battaglia was executed on February 1, 2018.

    At the time of the murders, he was on probation for hitting his ex-wife, the girls’ mother, and she had been trying to have him arrested for violating probation. The tragedy was a catalyst for an amendment to the Texas Family Code, effective September 1, 2001, which required judges to presume that ordering supervised visitation in cases where there is evidence of family violence or child abuse is in the best interest of the child.

    Following the legislation, The Family Place worked with other advocates and Dallas County to get a Safe Havens grant and established the Faith and Liberty’s Place supervised visitation and monitored exchange program in 2003. We have received subsequent grants from The Crystal Charity Ball and Dallas County to sustain the program. Referrals to Faith and Liberty’s Place come directly from Dallas County Family Courts. In 2017 the program provided 4,169 service hours to 380 adults and 302 children.

    “The families who come to Faith and Liberty’s Place are struggling with the trauma of both family violence and divorce,” says The Family Place CEO Paige Flink. “On this 17th anniversary of their death, we’re proud to remember Faith and Liberty by continuing to provide a uniquely safe environment where services are provided by highly trained staff to prevent abuse and save lives.”
  • 40 Stories for 40 Years: Gail Griswold

    by Emily Roberts | Apr 26, 2018

    Gail Griswold was just two years out of Northeastern University, where she earned her master’s degree in counseling psychology, when she joined The Family Place as our first executive director from October 1978 through April 1988. Services started with a shelter and hotline, but, from the start, she says, The Family Place worked to create a system of services including pioneering outreach counseling, aftercare support and housing, a men’s counseling program and community education.

    “We were inventing it all as we went along,” says Griswold. “Services for battered women were just beginning all across the U.S. No one knew what would be effective, because no one had done this.”

    The Family Place also began screening for physical and psychological abuse of witnessing children, a radical idea at the time, and obtained some of the final funding from the Office on Domestic Violence shortly before the Reagan administration closed it.

    “I remember visiting the building in Washington, D.C. and seeing desks stacked in the halls as offices were vacated,” Griswold says. “The two remaining federal staff members were determined to send the last of the funds to shelters.”

    “It was an exciting time. We felt we were creating something so important,” Griswold says. “I was lucky to be young and inexperienced, so we didn¹t know that we couldn¹t do things. We just did them, even in the face of overwhelming obstacles.”

    Now, Griswold says she is thrilled to see what the organization has become.

    “It is so much more than we dared to dream when we opened that first shelter!” she says.

  • The Week of the Young Child

    by Emily Roberts | Apr 24, 2018

    This post was written by our Program Director of Children's Educational Services, Bergen Bartram.

    Last week our Child Development Center celebrated the Week of the Young Child! Each year, the National Association for Education of Young Children (NAEYC) designates a week to honor early learning and the families at our shelter were able to be a part of the celebration.

    The theme for this special celebration was “You are my Sunshine,” reminding the children at our shelter who have been exposed to such trauma that they bring sunshine and light into many lives. Each day during the Week of the Young Child we celebrated in a different way.

    Monday’s celebration was dedicated to music. The children enjoyed a dance party in a room filled with instruments, ribbons, disco lights, and more allowing the kids to have fun and be active.

    Tuesday was "Taco Tuesday" – a day dedicated to taste! The generous cooking staff at our Emergency Shelter created a menu full of fun flavors while also promoting healthy eating habits and fitness.

    Wednesday was “Work together Wednesday.”  Children used our large Rigamajig to construct the fort of their dreams! Their creative skills were reinforced while exploring math and science concepts. 


        

    On Thursday the kids focused on art by using their handprints to create a large sun. The mural reminds the children that by working together they can make something beautiful. And, the final product is a wonderful addition to our lobby!

        

    Friday was “Family Friday.” Our Behavior Intervention Specialist, Gennie, offered a free parent training to support parents who have questions about their child’s development and behavior. Immediately following the training the Child Development Center hosted a “Picnic on the Playground”  for mothers, children and teachers to eat together while enjoying the spring weather.

    Engaging and celebrating families is at the heart of supporting our young learners. We had a sunshiney week with our beloved parents, children and teachers!
  • 40 Stories for 40 Years: Aaliyah Miranda

    by Emily Roberts | Apr 18, 2018

    Aaliyah Miranda was born in Mexico and came to Dallas when she was 16. She married right after high school and stayed in the abusive relationship for eight years before reaching out for help. In 2000, she came to The Family Place’s emergency shelter with no money or job skills. She and her two sons stayed at the shelter for 30 days and then applied for our transitional housing program where they stayed for three months.


    A year later, her ex-husband sued for custody of one of her boys, which was granted. This forced her to give her son back to her abuser. Aaliyah was destroyed by this, but she sought counseling and support from The Family Place’s South Dallas Counseling Center, which helped her acquire the necessary tools to get back on her feet. She decided to go back to school and fight for her children.


    After taking ESL classes, she enrolled in college classes. Working and studying at the same time brought a lot of sleepless nights, but she was determined to accomplish her goal. Aaliyah earned an associate’s degree from Mountain View College, but that was only the start. She graduated cum laude from the University of Texas in Arlington with a bachelor’s degree in Spanish and went on to obtained a master’s of Education with dual language emphasis. She has continued graduate studies at Southern Methodist University and is currently pursuing a doctorate from Texas A&M University-Commerce. She plans to complete her dissertation in August 2018.


    Years after losing custody of her son, Aaliyah reunited with him, and both of her boys are currently in college. She remarried five years ago and has worked in education for 13 years, currently as an assistant principal in Grand Prairie. Aaliyah is a member of The Family Place’s Board of Directors and Ladies of Leadership, a group of survivors turned advocates. She is also the president of a Toastmaster International Club where she shares her story.


    “Thanks to the support I received from the Family Place, I found the courage to be where I am today. I used to be shy, had low self-esteem, and didn’t believe in myself,” Aaliyah says. “The Family Place showed me there are people who care about you without even knowing you, and I will be forever grateful.”

  • 40 Stories for 40 Years: Virginia Whitehill

    by Emily Roberts | Apr 10, 2018

    Virginia Whitehill, an early supporter of The Family Place, was born into the women’s movement. Her mother, Myrtle Bates Bulkley marched for women’s suffrage and raised her daughter to be a strong voice for change. We honored Ginny in 2006 as a Texas Trailblazer for her tireless advocacy for women.

    Ginny was instrumental in getting funding for our work. After facing some push back from fellow Junior League of Dallas members when she lobbied for funds, Ginny employed her trademark wit and wisdom.

    “I said it wasn’t about women’s rights, it was about fighting crime, and, gosh, maybe it would be good to be safe from crime in your own home,” Ginny said.

    Initial funding from the Junior League of Dallas and the National Council of Jewish Women enabled The Family Place to hire our first executive director and legitimized us with other funders. Junior League of Dallas volunteers have been essential to our work ever since.


  • 40 Stories for 40 Years: Caroline Richards

    by Emily Roberts | Mar 30, 2018

    Caroline hadn’t been married long before her husband began abusing her. One day after church, she was holding her 11-month-old granddaughter when she and her husband got into an argument. He began to choke her until she passed out, and she and the baby both fell to the floor. She crawled to her nearby bedroom. And, with weak and shaking hands, called 911. The police came and arrested her husband.


    Caroline got a restraining order against her husband, and a counselor at her church told her about The Family Place. During her marriage she suffered physical, sexual and financial abuse, but counseling at The Family Place helped her see that change was possible.


     “I was so ashamed and embarrassed to tell anyone, but I broke that silence and took my voice and my life back,” she says. “The Family Place showed me how to be victorious and bold.”


    Caroline divorced her husband and now has a job, is attending school and is in the process of purchasing a home. She is in the leadership program at The Family Place and is a member of Toastmasters. Caroline says the resources at The Family Place empowered, motivated and equipped her to take a stand against domestic violence.

  • 40 Stories for 40 Years: Erika Kiser

    by Emily Roberts | Mar 14, 2018

    Erika Kiser was a victim of domestic violence and didn’t even know it. Her husband was addicted to heroin and had just lost his job when they got into an argument that led to a physical altercation. When she called the police, they arrested her.


    “When I came to The Family Place I was broken and felt like I was beyond repair,” Erika says. “I honestly don’t remember how I got The Family Place … I’m just glad I did.”


    Erika attended both group and one-on-one counseling sessions. In group she learned that she wasn’t alone. Other women were going through the same things. Although she fought her one-on-one counselor on almost every task she was given, she says it was exactly what she needed. Her two children also received counseling at The Family Place. They didn’t see the physical violence, but Erika says they were just as emotionally abused as she was, and counseling helped them understand what was happening.


    Her husband later died, and, even though he had abused her, his death affected her greatly. She considered committing suicide but knew her children needed her.


    Today, Erika is the campus registrar at Alex W. Spence Middle School and TAG Academy. She has also been a client board member representing The Family Place with Legal Aid of Northwest Texas for almost three years. 


    “It’s hard to imagine where my kids and I would be if it hadn’t been for The Family Place. The Family Place saved my life and my sanity.” Erika says. “I’m truly thankful to God for The Family Place, and I love every single minute of my life now."


  • 40 Stories for 40 Years: United Way of Metropolitan Dallas

    by Emily Roberts | Mar 07, 2018

    Since 1981, the United Way of Metropolitan Dallas has been a critical funder of programs at The Family Place.

    “Family violence prevention is a key strategy to achieve United Way’s 2020 Community Goal of improving health throughout the region,” said Jennifer Sampson, McDermott-Templeton President and CEO of the United Way of Metropolitan Dallas. “Our investments in programs at The Family Place are effectively working to break the cycles of abuse in North Texas.”

    When United Way celebrated its 90th anniversary in 2014, the first of its “Nine for 90” service projects was at The Family Place Safe Campus. Dallas Cowboys Legend Darren Woodson joined volunteers from Texas Instruments and Alliance Data to paint, replace shutters and transform the playground at the campus for the women and children living there.


    Jennifer Sampson


    “The Family Place has become a national model in eliminating family violence,” Sampson said. “Its extraordinary leader Paige Flink is at the heart of it all. A passionate, vocal advocate for ending family violence, Paige has always had my deepest admiration. We share a commitment to ensuring that all North Texans have a safe and secure place to call home.”

  • 40 Stories for 40 Years: Hope Woodson

    by Emily Roberts | Feb 28, 2018

    After Hope Woodson left her abusive marriage her son’s behavior changed drastically. His grades started slipping, and his behavior worsened at home and school. He had outbursts where he became extremely sad and then lashed out in anger. Hope called the Family Place after seeing a news story where our counselors assisted a young man having similar issues, and she and her children started coming to one-on-one and group counseling sessions.

    “We learned how to express ourselves without anger and how to channel feelings of sadness and uncertainty.  Most importantly, we learned that there was a light at the end of the tunnel, and that we weren’t alone,” Hope says. “It wasn’t easy at first, but sharing my truth with women that had gone through similar experiences gave me confidence, strength and encouragement.”


    Today, Hope’s son is an 8th grader who is excelling in school and plays three sports. Hope is a member of The Family Place’s Ladies of Leadership, a group of survivors-turned-advocates that volunteer and share their experiences at various community events. She is also serving on The Family Place Partners Auxiliary Board for 2018.


    “I couldn’t be more excited and proud of this opportunity to serve an organization that has positively impacted and transformed my life,” she says.


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