Recognizing the Warning Signs of Abuse
warning signs of domestic violence
Domestic violence often starts subtly and escalates over time. Knowing the warning signs can help you protect yourself or someone you care about. No one deserves to feel unsafe, controlled or threatened. If you recognize any of these signs, support is available—you are not alone.
If something feels off in your relationship, trust your instincts—you deserve to feel safe, respected and heard.
Abuse doesn’t always start with violence. Many survivors say their relationship began with charm, kindness and affection. Over time, small red flags can build into patterns of control and harm.
If your partner displays several of the behaviors below, it may be a sign of abuse. Take them seriously—and talk to someone you trust.
is it abuse? Know the Signs.
Take notice of these behaviors and take them seriously. Talk to someone about the changes you see in your partner.
- GETS Too Close, Too Fast
- Always has to know where you are
- Is controlling
- Isolates you
- Blames you for his/her feelings
- Is cruel to animals
- Displays “playful” use of force
- Verbally/emotionally assaults
- Displays sudden mood swings
- Hurts you financially
