When Someone You Care About Is in Danger
How to Support a Friend in an AbusivevRelationship
You may be the reason someone finds safety and hope. Learning to recognize the warning signs of abuse—and knowing how to offer support—can help change, and even save, a life.
When Someone You Care About Is in Danger
Abuse doesn’t always leave visible scars. Pay attention to subtle signs that someone might be in danger.
Be a Lifeline
The first step to safety is action.
If you need to escape an abusive relationship, call 214.941.1991. If you are in immediate danger call 911.
Signs Something Might Be Wrong:
- Unexplained injuries or odd explanations
- Frequent canceling of plans
- Fearful or nervous behavior around their partner
- Seems withdrawn or overly anxious
- Appears isolated from friends and family
- Makes excuses for their partner’s behavior
These could be indications that something deeper is going on. Trust your gut—reach out gently.
Let Them Know You Care
Ask gentle, direct questions and give them time to talk. If they’re not ready to open up, check in again later.
Listen Without Judging
Survivors often feel shame or believe the negative things they’ve been told. Let them know you’re a safe space.
Reassure Them
"This is not your fault." Abuse is never justified—not by stress, jealousy, alcohol or anything else.
Keep Checking In
If they stay in the relationship, continue to show support without pushing. It often takes multiple attempts to leave.
Connect Them to Help
Encourage them to call our 24/7 Hotline at 214.941.1991, or the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-SAFE.
Suggest a Safety Plan
They may need to gather important documents and think through an exit plan. You can help guide them through this.
Recommend Documenting the Abuse
Medical records, journal entries or photos can help build a case for legal protection later.
Remind Them:
Abuse Is a Crime
They can call 911 and request a protective order. Legal and advocacy support is available..
Let them know they aren't alone
One in three people in Texas will experience domestic violence in their lifetime.
